Reasons of our social issues


Do you know why we have so many Social Issue, and even we know we do not talk about. and even sometimes we talk about but we not eradicate and practice good in our societies, Cultures and norms and values.

Affliction is mainly due to this we made our life so horrible by our own actions. We could live with water but in a single day we spent a lot on multiple drinks. and even without any knowledge what they have like ingredients or formula or chemical composition or organic or inorganic etc.

Similarly cloths, cars, even glass and shoes and chocolates 🙂
When we go beyond the necessity lines we are oppressor to the nature.
We could not defend or do justice or explain a single grain of rice we waste during any ceremony or event or a drink or a loaf or anything edible.

When you will look around we made our lives difficult ourselves.

The Celebrations the events and occasions,

The Religion make us understand to make all events and your life so simple. so simple and easy for you. But we are oppressor to ourselves and all our life our worryness are things.

This is an understanding and there is a fine line between necessity and not necessity. When we cross this line, we not only do wrong with ourselves we do wrong to others to as we are setting a pattern and a norm to be followed.

When in society each member like with responsibility care about these aspects. First and utmost you do justice with things and than you are doing a just with a society in terms of norms.

Especially in sub continent that is effected by natives 🙂

Are deeply effected by so many norms which are not part of any religion.

#Lie

#Backbite

#Dowry

#Bribery

#Dishonesty

#Unjust

#Social-issues

Stand with and Speak Truth

And this list goes on.

By closing eyes or not talking about facts is also not only negligence but also bad deed. We could start these practices from us and our life and our family and our society and hence forth we set examples.

Its a do die condition right now in right now time
Because if you do not start it with the next moment you read this writing you could never do it. And surely you could never do it if you could not begin it now. Everyone is surely living this life for once 🙂 a truth all know. and everyone have a very clear idea that no one knows the next moment is their last. 🙂

Things to do are live your life with honesty and without lies. Do not lie to you and do not let other speak lie to you. Its nothing about Ideal People or Ideal State or Ideal Society. We are all human beings. and humanity is a common relationship among all cultures norms and societies and values. And humanity taught us live with true values. and living with truth for a single breath is far better sleeping thousands of night with loud lies.

All about said is not connected to anyone other than yourself.
Honestly its not connected to anyone. Its only About You.
Its yours story
Its Really your and mine story
Its us who need to be honest with us.
The day you are honest with yourself you could not dishonest with anyone else.

Things to do live with truth.
Simplicity in nature as well we need to follow and practice simplicity in our lives and occasions and events. I am repeating it again and again as i felt and realize this is the common issue.

This is the major reason of the issues in societies as we do not want the truth. and we do not swallow the truth and we do not want to live with Truth.

Hard work and dedication comes with honesty and both said are part of a faith.

A thing i learned during the death of my grandmother:
All my life i was understanding faith. All happening and occurrence occur with the WILL of ALLAH. I was in pain and grief. Like if happiness comes from God. there is no doubt relief comes from GOD. I was in pain all that week but the moment we buried her and return from the grave yard there was  a piece from GOD. Happiness all our lives are blessed by ALLAH and surely the grief and after grief the soothe is also Come from God.

That makes your Faith more Firm on God Existence. and Make your connection to God more stronger. and these happiness and grieves make you more close to GOD.

This was so beautiful. Those moment you spent with the one who is about to meet GOD very soon.

I could remember those moments during unconscious of her I was holding her hand and praying to God for her. and a single final tear came out of her eyes and she was sleeping like a deep sleep. and those four to five hours of my life was like the best shot like the milestone when you send back your mother back to Creator hands in hands. Full of tears but surely prayers was about her next life and Praying all possible to ALLAH that O Allah take care of my mother as i have nothing remain.
And that moment i was only thinking that only bad things in mothers they die a day. Really a motherhood to a women after giving birth to a kid is blessed by God. but its very hard when you have to say Good Bye to your mother and surely at that moment I was thinking about Muhammad PBUH and His Mother RA, Her Death and tragic and grief he gone through.
Above all that is also a blessing to be very close to your elders and look after them and take care of them and Depart them with smiles and this is blessing. I realize few things more when a person is about to die, God cure her/him very close to the departure. All parameters get normal suddenly as Angel of Death is ready to take the soul out of the body. and surely when you pray to GOD. God shows you what all you want to see. and surely without any doubt this world is a place you can get whatever you want to have but with faith and with purity of prayers and connection to GOD.
Painful things could be bless and blissful.



And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], “uff,” and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word.

اورتمہارےپروردگارنےارشادفرمایاہےکہاسکےسواکسیکیعبادتنہکرواورماںباپکےساتھبھلائیکرتےرہو۔اگرانمیںسےایکیادونوںتمہارےسامنےبڑھاپےکوپہنچجائیںتواُنکواُفتکنہکہنااورنہانہیںجھڑکنااوراُنسےباتادبکےساتھکرنا

And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy and say, “My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up [when I was] small.”

اورعجزونیازسےانکےآگےجھکےرہواورانکےحقمیںدعاکروکہاےپروردگارجیساانہوںنےمجھےبچپنمیں(شفقتسے) پرورشکیاہےتوبھیاُن(کےحال) پررحمتفرما

Your Lord is most knowing of what is within yourselves. If you should be righteous [in intention] – then indeed He is ever, to the often returning [to Him], Forgiving.

جوکچھتمہارےدلوںمیںہےتمہاراپروردگاراسسےبخوبیواقفہے۔اگرتمنیکہوگےتووہرجوعلانےوالوںکوبخشدینےوالاہے

http://quran.com/17/23-25

My observations during that time are my ways for the rest of breaths. I wish and pray blessings on all who are gone to other world and all about to go and all will go surely 🙂

That day you listen this truth and you admit it how could it possible you do unjust with other !!! Really how could it possible you could lie and Really how could it be possible you could to bribery or dishonesty and backbite or live with arrogance or elegance or be elite when you are witness all those who were blessed were all poor and simple people. and when you are surely there is a next permanent life and in any next moment its about to come, how you could not be good in manners and values and ethics. How could you see people who are doing what and who are going where ? When you are not sure about the very next moment you will surely get ready with luggage you necessary for the hereafter and that luggage is nothing called objects or matters.

That Luggage is your deeds and actions. None of the machine manual or electronic could gauge your actions and deeds but they are purely as per purification reach to God and God is the Only who could and Who surely and Who Absolutely is the Best Returner of our actions and deeds.

A deed is a deed its could never be small or big.
For example for a person trillion of coins are everything and may be for a person sitting next those trillion of coins are nothing. so to God nothing is big or small God only see how pure and dedicated you are and how firm you are in faith to do a good deed even removing a tiny stone in middle of a road or even removing a thorn from someone cloths or road or guiding direction to someone who is lost or guiding or training how to write or read or any deed.

When you do thing without any expectation or return this is the job of Humans and this is called Humanity. Your pain is my pain and your grief is my grief and your son is my son and your problem is my problem. We know we could not resolve all issues but sometimes your single word worth those trillion coins.

You Will with the Will of God and Faith in God is they way you have to opt sooner or later as you are not sure about later so join it now. as they very next moment you could expect but you are not sure so Live it close to GOD as you come from God and eventually you have to meet God. After a Breath or after a wink of eye or a second or thousands of years. But surely and without any doubt none could confirm or assure you how many moments you are left with. Decision is your as well the life and breaths but none knows how much or how many. Decide it now and do the change you want from others. Be the Change You want from others and be others so other could be you. and try to stay close to God as He is surely close to every living or non living.

So worry about God not about people because first question is you not them. worry and think about you and the moment you conquer others will be good soon. this is the building block of any society.

Being units of human kind we need to do correct small things and sooner Huge things and Big things will be corrected by GOD. Again rectify the small matters that you could and rest will surely be fine. When you are correct and  on truth life you could surely decide good and bad. 🙂

I wish and Pray to God for all people that Allah Bless us with HIS blessings and Bliss and Mercy as He is Only Merciful and Beneficent.

God Bless you all.

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